Emotion simply means energy
in motion - do your emotions drive your habits or do your habits comply with
your emotions? Ever thought of it?
Rather than attempting
to rely this question I'm going to give you some concept to think about after
which you can now make the decision for yourself.
There are two basic
emotions - love and fear - all others are simply associated to these in some
direct or indirect way. For instance -fear can be the muse for - guilt,
resentment, anxiousness, frustration, impatience, anger or envy. Love however
can be demonstrated with - happiness, internal peace, pleasure, calm, serene,
bliss or cheerfulness.
The important thing
point I wish to make is that habits and emotions are related. Whether one
precedes the other or not, it isn't the query at this point but fairly - which
feelings usually guide your motion, choices or habits? Are they grounded in
fear or love?
For example - when
hassle strikes because it always does in some way often in everyone's life, is
your first response a fear or love based emotion? Or is your fear or love
primarily based emotional state inflicting the problem that you are
experiencing?
My original question was
- do your emotions drive your habits or do your habits comply with your
emotions? Getting a hint so far as to which can be ruling your everyday life?
No? OK one more example.
Let's say you just lost something
important to you. How do you react? Do you respond with gratitude and harmony
(that is when a door closes another one - always an improved one - opens) or is
your immediate response the one of fear?
In the illustrations
above I have illustrated the 2 alternatives - either your feelings cause or add
to your outcomes? Or your outcomes add to your emotions.
Regardless of which
drives your life - the key thing to bear in mind is that when negative (fear
dependent feelings are running the show) thing not often turn out well or as
hoped.
As humans our first
response to any challenge or uncertainty is - fight, flight or freeze. This
initial reaction comes from the oldest part of your mind what is referred to as
the Reptilian brain. The most youthful fraction of your brain is stranded in
love and its relatives.
The most excellent
technique to always come at any circumstances despite the consequences of the
menace or potential outcome is with a manner of appreciation. When you can
comprehend this (and I know it's not always easy) you grant yourself the
opportunity to view circumstances or situations in other positive (love based)
way. In the last part, regardless of the challenge, this is the greatest manner
to confront every problem regardless of its potential either encouraging or
depressing.
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